Handling rejection or knowing how to handle rejection is a really nice skill to have in your pocket because most people don’t know how to begin dealing with rejection quite well.
The way people react to rejection is quite disturbing actually. They either go in deep depression and their opinion of themselves is getting lower as time passes by until they give up on trying, or they burst into anger and they live in denial of the rejection that just happened. They insult the girl that rejected them, call her names etc. There are just a few people that really know how to handle rejection and that is by not reacting at all. That is the best way. The most effective one. I admit, dealing with rejection does not come easy to guys and they prefer not to live with it but the truth is that it happens to all of us. Everyone gets rejected every now and then. After all we are just people who sooner or later will make a mistake by saying something inappropriate and get rejected. It’s best to accept that you were rejected and move on to the next girl that you like to approach. It’s good to be persistent and not give up after the first “NO” but when you really screw it up, you can just call it a rejection and keep on going. In time you will get much better and you will make less mistakes but still once in awhile you will slip and get rejected again but this time it won’t even matter because you won’t feel a thing. You won’t give a damn about what happened at all.
Handling rejection by not reacting at all subconsciously tells the girls around that you have a high value and that you are confident with yourself no matter what. It also means that you are man enough to face the facts and that you know how to handle rejection the right way.
Dealing with rejection this way will boost up your value to a much higher level and the girls around you will notice that. Every single girl likes a guy that is able to take rejection and not give a damn about it. It shows that you are an alpha male who has a strong reality and doesn’t give a care what others think of him. Having strong beliefs and truly knowing who you are and what you want will make it easier for you to get rejected and not care about it. Instead of caring why that happened just go over to the next girl you like and start talking to her.
However to get to the point where you will know how to handle rejection perfectly you need to practice your brain and go through a bunch of situations where handling rejection is needed.
It’s quite similar to a muscle. The more you practice the better you get. Going out and approaching girls is a must if you want to get better and more successful in dating and seducing girls. More approaching means more rejection, more rejection means more handling rejection and that means that you will learn how to handle rejection much faster than by sitting at home doing nothing.
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