Handling rejection or knowing how to handle rejection is a really nice skill to have in your pocket because most people don’t know how to begin dealing with rejection quite well.
The way people react to rejection is quite disturbing actually. They either go in deep depression and their opinion of themselves is getting lower as time passes by until they give up on trying, or they burst into anger and they live in denial of the rejection that just happened. They insult the girl that rejected them, call her names etc. There are just a few people that really know how to handle rejection and that is by not reacting at all. That is the best way. The most effective one. I admit, dealing with rejection does not come easy to guys and they prefer not to live with it but the truth is that it happens to all of us. Everyone gets rejected every now and then. After all we are just people who sooner or later will make a mistake by saying something inappropriate and get rejected. It’s best to accept that you were rejected and move on to the next girl that you like to approach. It’s good to be persistent and not give up after the first “NO” but when you really screw it up, you can just call it a rejection and keep on going. In time you will get much better and you will make less mistakes but still once in awhile you will slip and get rejected again but this time it won’t even matter because you won’t feel a thing. You won’t give a damn about what happened at all.
Handling rejection by not reacting at all subconsciously tells the girls around that you have a high value and that you are confident with yourself no matter what. It also means that you are man enough to face the facts and that you know how to handle rejection the right way.
Dealing with rejection this way will boost up your value to a much higher level and the girls around you will notice that. Every single girl likes a guy that is able to take rejection and not give a damn about it. It shows that you are an alpha male who has a strong reality and doesn’t give a care what others think of him. Having strong beliefs and truly knowing who you are and what you want will make it easier for you to get rejected and not care about it. Instead of caring why that happened just go over to the next girl you like and start talking to her.
However to get to the point where you will know how to handle rejection perfectly you need to practice your brain and go through a bunch of situations where handling rejection is needed.
It’s quite similar to a muscle. The more you practice the better you get. Going out and approaching girls is a must if you want to get better and more successful in dating and seducing girls. More approaching means more rejection, more rejection means more handling rejection and that means that you will learn how to handle rejection much faster than by sitting at home doing nothing.
I think this is an excellent Article
I recently experienced a rejection from a girl that I really liked and instead of being an Asshole about it I did exactly what this article is saying ‘ do not react , except it and move on ‘ immediately I noticed the reactions from all the girls that were in that group seemed to be a lot more positive towards me and believe it or not the girl that rejected me for another guy start talking to me again and seemed really interested in me this time but at that stage I had already moved on
I did learn this advice the hard way though but it’s good advice!
MC
Okay smart readers, how long does it take to go from the friend “Zone” to the boy-friend Zone. I like this woman, we have known each other for about 2 months. Is this long enough? We text each other everyday, and before we go to sleep. Mostly – me first then her reply. How long should I pursue her? We have a gazillion things different about our lives, cultures, neither one of us is like a super star or model. I have some money, not much, and her parents are well off, but, who knows where things go. However I must admit her smile melts me. She is currently in between school and work and visiting friendS, both boy friends and girl friends, but it is me that she texts before she goes to sleep each night, MAYBE Just a few words, is all I need to feel attached to her. If I really feel that sex and marriage and kids and wonderful stuff is passable together, which I do!!! how long should I wait for her to stop dancing around and come home? Tough question yes, but, do I just admit that she is wrong for me and move on, do I think that we are not moving to sex yet is killing me being in the friend zone, yes and confused. Do I take this like rejection, and walk away or just pause and take a few deep breaths? No, she is a virgin so nobody is in the intimate “boyfriend” zone with her. How long until I should say: “I quit” and move on? I like this woman a lot. Am I making a mistake dragging this on or just following the hard path? At this point, I would do about anything, she already knows how I feel about her, but her answer is “please friends longer” but as John Lennon says: “money can’t buy love” I hesitate to buy her anything, the time we spend together is the most valueble thing I have to offer. Love has to be mutual and reciprocal, otherwise a relationship is just not there. How to know, or maybe there is no knowing this answer. Here is the second part of the question — I know how I feel, will her feelings change —- is she just exploring her options for security, procreation, genetic advancement, or romance and does my side of the equation really not matter?
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