Before looking for the courage to approach a girl ask yourself this. Do you really have to look for that courage?
Because I think that that courage you are going to look for is already in you. You already have the courage to approach a girl, you don’t need to spend hours, days or even weeks looking for that courage to approach a girl. You really don’t need to do that. The facts are that if you spend so much time researching how to find that courage you will hold yourself back from actually approaching a girl.
You don’t need to look for that courage to approach a girl because you already have it in you. Every man has it.
Every little male baby in time learns how to talk and that gives him the ability to approach girls anywhere and anytime he wants. What you need to understand is that if you go for the approach and fail or get rejected you won’t die. You won’t be left alone and you won’t be hurt physically in any way. Unless you approach her in a really rude way and she feels very much offended by your approach and slaps you or attacks you physically. As for the psychological pain and the feel of disappointment, those will be present at first but those feelings are harmless and in time you will learn how to deal with them or ignore them. After gaining enough experience you won’t get many rejections and even when you do those bad feelings won’t show up at all.
After you have dealt with the problem of “finding the courage to approach” you should know how to approach a girl.
I suggest you don’t use any pick up lines and catchy phrases and keep it simple. If it’s an approach during the day and you are beginner in this field try some non-direct approach. Ask a question like: “What do you think? Who lies more, man or women?” This kind of approach is called indirect approach because you are asking a very general question just to start a conversation and create a little bit more comfort between you and the girl you are approaching. However it might take you long time from that question to turn the situation into asking her for her number but for people who haven’t done this before this is the easiest way to go.
As for the approaches during the night and in night clubs direct approaches work best. Because when girls go in night clubs dressed attractive and hot, they are there to be approached by guys not to chat about who lies more. They want to be approached by the guys in the club. So in this case it’s best that you approach more directly like: “Hey I’m Ryan and I really want to meet you.”
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